5 tips to help your child settle in a new school
If you’re a parent moving overseas with your family, you’ve undoubtedly put your child first every step of the way – when deciding when to move, where to move, and if to move at all. Their educational transition is one of the most important aspects to consider, as it will fundamentally shape the intelligent adults they grow to become. Moving to a new school can be incredibly daunting for any child, no matter how far away you’re moving, so it’s important to take these vital steps to ensure they feel supported and positive throughout their academic transition.
1) Don’t expect A*s straight away
Of course, you want your child to succeed in every aspect of life, and do their absolute best academically. However, while they’re adjusting to a completely new culture, social system and academic curriculum, it’s important not to place too much pressure on them to get the best grades instantly. Instead, help them adjust to each of these aspects in turn. Not only will this ensure their happiness, but it will also equip them to succeed once they’ve settled in.
2) Encourage interaction
As any expert will tell you, the key to a smooth and stress-free move is communication. Ensure you stay up to date with how your child is getting on at school and what they do on a daily basis. Discuss any problems they faced that day and suggest ways for them to overcome their issues next time. If any school-related issues persist, it might be necessary to contact the school directly and make sure they’re doing all they can to support your child through their educational transition.
As well as encouraging communication within the family unit, it is also a good idea to motivate your child to socialise with other schoolchildren to form friendships. Speaking to other expat children with similar experiences can be a great way to for your child to adjust to their new environment.
3) Request a buddy
Most schools offer some sort of buddy scheme, which involves a child of a similar age and background acting as a buddy for a new pupil during their first few days or weeks at school. In a lot of cases, buddies become permanent friends, or at least give your child the confidence to talk to other pupils, and a better understanding of the goings on in their new school.
4) Promote after-school clubs
Another great way to help your child settle in at their new school and meet new people is through extra-curricular activities. After-school clubs are a great way to meet other children with similar interests, which often forms the groundwork for long-lasting friendships. If there are clubs for activities your child enjoys or is good at, this will also give your child the necessary confidence to make friends with other students.
5) Throw a party
Once your child has made a few friends or acquaintances at school, suggest for them to invite them over to your new house for a party so that they can socialise outside of the school environment. This will allow the other children to get to know your child and better understand their culture. If all goes well, your child will be visiting their houses after school too (which will give you the chance to meet other parents too!)
Changing schools can be an incredibly stressful time for child, so ensure your child knows that you’re there for them. Give them time to adjust and play an active role in socialising your child inside an outside of the school environment.
